2.21.2013

Little Insecurities


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I'm generally not a confident person even if I might appear to be. There are not a lot moments in my life when I don't question what I'm going to say or do. It seems silly to always want to please other people, but I feel like that's what I'm always trying to do. I'm so sick of it though. There were a lot of people in my life that would constantly put me down because I guess I always appeared to be the kind of person to brush something it off. For the past couple of months though, I have been limiting these kinds of people in my life. I realize that I'm much happier now.

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I guess it's pretty obvious that I was in kind of a funk. I even almost debated wearing sweatpants to school one days, but I quickly sobered up! Anyway back to the outfit. When I get something new, I want to wear it right away. Nothing new is safe in my closet for more than a couple days. This necklace took a while to come out into the daylight though. I'm the biggest fan of statement necklaces. I love how fun and exciting they are, but I never really had one of this great size. Immediately I wanted to pair it with a cute dress and some tights, but the weather has been horrible. Being the impatient person I am, I couldn't just wait till it got warmer. I was determined to find the perfect winter outfit for it. So this morning while I was running late for school, I put it on. Surprisingly it looked really good with my burnt orange pants (a girl in my english class called them that) and starry, blue top, so I decided to go with it! Don't you love when outfits just fall together on their own?

- Violet 
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  1. It's so great that you're happier now! I used to get put down all the time, but then I stopped surrounding myself with the kind of people that would do that.

    These photos a beautiful, you have such a glorious smile, and such lovely hair. Great outfit, I really love the boots.

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  2. I'm glad you've cut out those people in your life - you don't need others putting you down all the time! Even the strongest of person couldn't withstand that constantly.
    You look very happy here, and I"m happy to see it :)
    Love your pretty outfit too - so much better than sweats!! Lol

    Trendy Teal

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  3. Good for you for removing the negativity from your life :) Yes, there's nothing better than when you throw somethings on which you wouldn't think to pair together, and voila, put together outfit!

    Mili from call me, Maeby

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  4. cool necklace. Good for you, you should always surround yourself with positive people!
    tie-dye-eyes

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  5. Lovely outfit - the necklace and top are so sweet. x

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  6. Sometimes it is so hard to let go of certain people, but life is too short to spend around negative people! I love the outfit! I am the opposite when it comes to new clothes - for some reason I hang on to them for weeks waiting for "the perfect moment" to wear them for the first time. Silly, I know :)

    Oh and thanks for stopping by my blog - so glad to have found yours!

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  7. such a cute look !!! :D loveee your top!! :)

    katslovefashion.blogspot.com

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  8. Great outfit. And great post; it's definitely better to rid yourself of negative people when you can.

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  9. Beautiful pictures dear and you have gorgeous hair hun :)
    Outfit is nicely put together :)
    It's great that cutted down the negative people around...it's very important for blooming on :)


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  10. Your necklace is AMAZING =)

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  11. Loving this look. And I'm the same way, I am not confident at all, even though it seems that way from my blog, haha...I'm confident over a computer ;)
    http://www.closet-fashionista.com

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  12. What an interesting necklace! www.adoramehitabel.blogspot.co.uk

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  13. Cute outfit, love the color of your pants.

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  14. Good for you! It is so important to your emotional well being to keep positive people around. You are a beautiful woman, no need for any negativity! I love your pretty blouse--such a fun print! And the color of those skinnies! Thanks so much for stopping by my blog! I really appreciate it!

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  15. Very pretty :)
    Your top is beautiful :)

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